As humans we naturally avoid conflict, and any situations where breakdowns could happen. This is a good way to be comfortable, but not a good way to grow. It’s at best a way to make incremental process, it’s not how you become elite at anything.
This weekend, do something unpredictable. Do something you’d never do. Take a risk. Don’t worry about the payoff, or the cost, just do it as long as it’s outside your comfort zone. Then repeat again when you realize how much you enjoy it.
Life completely in your comfort zone isn’t living, it’s surviving.