If you have a big decision to make, or even a small one, make it. Yes I realize you might want to gather facts, try on each side, weigh your pros and cons, sleep on it, ask a thousand of your closest friends on twitter, see your local psychic, or whatever floats your boat. But know this limbo period is not productive, it’s living in the unknown. Did you know that while you’re here, you may even train your brain to stay in limbo.
What does your heart tell you? What do your feelings tell you? And if you don’t want to trust your heart and feelings, at least answer “what are the exact facts that you need to know to make a decision, and let’s get them NOW”.
Don’t live in limbo, it’s no place to live.