There are situations of all kinds that we get into where things “should” be great. The person/people involved are good, we’re comfortable and stable, but for reasons we can’t quite explain it’s not quite right. This is the time to consult your heart.
Your heart has a way of knowing exactly where you should be. Some of us get really good at not listening to it, rationalizing everything in our head for why this really does work, or why it’s not so bad. Some of us even get good at convincing ourselves that we didn’t really want what was in our heart anyway.
Don’t ignore your heart. I have written in the past about this, but it is my belief that your heart will eventually find a way to let you know that it’s being ignored. Even if that never happens, who wins if you ignore it?