As humans our brains are hard-wired to protect us. We avoid disappointment as much as we can, and we naturally try to be in a place where everything is safe. Notice where this may be happening in your life. That certain house, car, relationship or friendship, job, whatever it is, do you have it because you want it, or do you have it because you are afraid of loss? The more times we choose from a place other than fear, the more we become drivers of our own life.
Don’t be afraid of loss. When this fear dictates our decisions, we give up control of our own life.