Your entire being is designed to survive. It avoids conflict, it avoids evolution at all possible costs. You’re trained to protect yourself and stay where it is comfortable. This is certainly needed at times, if it wasn’t for this protection then we likely wouldn’t make it through our childhood. But that doesn’t mean it should be followed all the time. Some of us really want to see our hearts evolve. Maybe we’re consistently finding “wrong” people with whom to fall in love. Maybe we are staying in a place we don’t really want to be for fear of the big change. Maybe we are holding onto anger at someone or something. Whatever the case may be, it is often a very rewarding experience to identify if you are truly happy where you are or if you are simply avoiding the evolution. Sometimes we really want to change something big about ourselves. It is completely evident why we want to change, and then the first time we leave our comfort zone we get too uncomfortable to proceed.
Evolution comes with resistance. Remember your commitments and know that this will happen whenever you are truly making a change.