A sentence I hear way too often is “it’s not going to change.” This can be said in reference to your current or future relationships, your career, your financial situation, your weight, your schedule, or a million other things. To conclusively say something is not going to change is not only giving up completely, but it is likely creating a reality where this is the case. If you really want something to change, or to completely transform, then begin by believing it is possible. You create your own reality, so perhaps it is best to create one where you’re not stuck behind a huge brick wall.
It’s not going to change? Watch your language!