In the past and present I have worked with many clients, and all had very distinct goals. One thing which is always consistent is that all paths lead to being the best version of yourself. Think for example if you are starting a business. For it to succeed, you obviously need to work hard and give it everything you have, coming from the best possible place. If it fails, you need to be in the best possible place you can be when you move on. Obviously we prefer one of those outcomes to another, but the fact remains that either path leads to being your best self. If you are hoping to meet somebody, the same holds true.
Whether your goals are romantic, or financially based, or fitness based, every single path always leads to you wanting to be the best version of yourself. To truly be the driver of your life, this is the only way. Make yourself as educated and/or qualified as you can be, without this you could have done more. Be in your essence as much as possible, every minute outside of there is a minute that you are not attracting what you truly are meant to be attracting. Take care of your body, the last thing you need is something health-related holding you back, eliminate this possibility as much as you possibly can.
Be your best self. All possibilities for great things lead to this conclusion, and they always will. As long as you want to do great things with your life, this is the path to take.